Today was my AJ's 16th birthday, and you missed it. I know a lot has happened in the past while between us, but why take it out on a loving, witty and brilliant kid? None of this was his fault. No card, no call, nothing. Not even an email to Adam to pass along your well-wishes.
Remember last year when you came over while AJ was there, and we played board games and ate cake? There was so much laughter and a genuinely good feeling all around. It didn't matter that you were not in a position to go on a spree, getting stuff for AJ; your love and your company was enough. And as you were leaving, AJ and I threw our arms around you in a bear hug. You caught my eye, and you smiled. That was a good day.
Thing is, today was not the same. AJ and I sat around and watched movies and ate the white Sobey's cake with unbelievable icing. I think he had an okay day. But I also think he picked up on the fact that I was very sad. For those of you who know me better, you will know that I lose friends and family like it's a bodily function. But why does that mean you can't be there, even in a remote way? It's not his fault that I keep losing people.
It's sad that he had to pay for whatever my sins were in our friendship. He still considers you a grandma, you know. How am I supposed to explain why you are MIA? I can't, and I shouldn't have to. You need to get off your damn pity pot and tell him why his 16th birthday isn't important enough to make an effort.
Live and learn, I guess. Guess what I learned today while AJ and I were eating cake alone? To put it simply:
YOU SUCK, AND I AM NOT ALL THAT SAD ABOUT MISSING YOU ANYMORE IF THIS IS THE TYPE OF PERSON YOU ARE GOING TO BE.
Oh, and one more thing...GROW THE HELL UP.
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